Why we fail in our life & career

You have seen  many people around us who has been very successful and some who are as average or below, the main reason is about perception of life. We see the life from different angles, some see the problems as opportunities and some think it as a huge trouble, its all about how we look the life from our prospective.

Actually success comes from positive mindset of mind which proceed the way to take actions, most of us do not have confidence in ourselves and had a negative beliefs,  also people around us who do not allow us to grow. The best way is to be in positive mindset and get along with career & business oriented people.

There are some points to consider.

1-    When you are doing some work and if you find happiness without being bother of money and you do not even bother about the time in doing that work , that’s your passion, excel in that the money will come automatically.

2-    If you doing some work and feel discomfort or do not like it but you do it because for money, that’s your weak area or not likeness of work.

What to do then

Make the point No.1 your dream work and excel on it, the money follows you.

In point No.2 do the work against your likeness for example if you hate garbage then work to clean the garbage, if you hate child abuse then work for child protection etc etc. Life is precious and gift of God, create to help humanity and peace.

Live Life, Live Lovely.

Value of Time

Every young or old man or woman, rich or poor has in every circle of the day 1,440 minutes, nor more nor less but its up to the person how they utilizes that day which identifies him/her the success rate. The time is the quantum of wealth and of resources that every human being is empowered.

With some effort and of habit we can develop a state of being in success zone. Only a few minute a day to self assessment which will create the positive results for the next 24  hours. With the clear vision and objectives of goal we can take the planned actions and move on with success and confidence.

We have seen so many business person who just spend their whole life in one position of business while others build the large empires and franchises. The main reason is the utilization of time in right direction.

One of the life changing formula of success is two quotes, just focus on it, that will change the life.   1.  Poverty is a Sin   2. It is the duty & responsibility  of us to serve mankind in this world. When you focus on it truly we become aware of our responsibility and our mind works on building money rather than wrong beliefs about money. Then we take actions rather than criticizing.      

So, the lesson of life is to respect the time rather than spending it wastefully. When we becomes rich we will not only care the humanity but also give the donations & charity. Make this world a very happy place and create peace & harmony in the society.

Live Life, Live Lovely.

How to Spent better Life

Life is the combination of different ups and down, bad luck and good luck etc etc but to spent life better one has to follow some rules of life. To spent better life one should has to follow three S principle which when we apply in life will be great successful. These three S are State, Song and Strategies. If you adopt these rules you feel life so easy and comfortable, so I will discuss it one by one.

STATE

This does not mean a territory or a country, it means the posture of our walking, talking ,sitting and standing etc . When we walk and talk with confidence and with full energy we just not only energies our self but also we give positive energy in our surroundings. Just same will be with sitting, when we sit straight we become active mood but if we sit with head down we feel laziness. It is wisely said that a healthy body has a healthy mind. Our physical action will project our mental mood.

SONG

Here I do not mean some kind of music etc, it means what the dialogue going or what the thinking going on in our head, if we all the time thinking or talk to our self the complains, sad stories or guilt etc so we become like that and we never be live happy. So what ever the circumstances always play a positive thoughts and talk to our mind which will dilute the negativity and create the positive environment around us.

STRATEGY

One of the best method to spent life is that there should be some goals in life, where to go, what is the aim in the life. The life without goal is dead life, if you don’t know the place to go while travelling then you reach the place with no choice. So planning and making goal is very important in life to achieve success and spent a better happy life.

Live life, live lovely.

Black Magic

Some time we see people around are so much depressed or become anger, like people marriage life ruined or they become depressed which they do not understand why this happened.

According to many religions the concept of evil force is exited and many people get protection from evil and ask them to help to accomplish their desire, this may be in the form of disease, unpleasant condition and anger etc. So whenever you see unusual changes in behavior or conditions, this may be the cause of some black magic activity.

Many people houses are haunted or some evil possessed the human being in their control. All these things happened because of some bad magic activity going on which disturb the people life. The good news is that in religion Islam God revealed the Surah Naas in this context to provide facility to human beings to come under God protection. When we recite this Surah the evil and its forces get back and God protect human from these negative forces.

This article provides full translation and tafsir of Surah an-Nas,  

114:0] In the name of God, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

[114:1] Say, "I seek refuge in the Lord of the people”.

[114:2] "The King of the people”.

[114:3] "The God of the people”.

[114:4] "From the evils of sneaky whisperers”.

[114:5] "Who whisper into the chests of the people”.

[114:6] "Be they of the jinns, or the people."

Let us now discuss the Surah in detail, verse by verse

Say, "I seek refuge in the Lord of the people”.

The Surah opens with Allah commanding His Prophet (PBUH) to seek refuge with The Lord, or in Arabic, Al-Rabb of mankind. Al-Rabb is one of Allah’s 99 names, and He asserts that the Lord of the heavens and the earth will be there for anyone who seeks refuge in Him. 

"The King of the people”.

Allah further asserts that He is always there for mankind to seek refuge in Him by adding another one of His names: The King, or Al-Malik.

"The God of the people”.

Allah gives humans another reason to turn to Him: He is The God, or Al-Ilah of mankind.

"From the evils of sneaky whisperers”.

In this Ayah, Shaytaan is referred to as “the sneaking whisperer”, because he tempts mankind to commit sins by secretly whispering evil thoughts to us. Allah is the Only Power that can protect mankind from Shaytaan.

"Who whisper into the chests of the people”.

Once again, it is stated that Shaytaan whispers in the hearts of mankind, implying that he does not openly come in front of us but surreptitiously misleads us.

"Be they of the jinns, or the people."

This Ayah can be interpreted in two different ways, following the previous Ayah. The first way is that Shaytaan whispers in the hearts of men and jinn, whereas the second interpretation can be that the Shayateen (evil ones) amongst men and jinn whisper in the hearts of other men and jinn, to mislead or misguide them.

Reason of Revealation.

This Surah being revealed because Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) himself being the victim of black magic. It happened Prophet (s.a.w.) himself suffered the effects of witchcraft. It was reported that a Jew, cast a magical spell on the Prophet (s.a.w.) and when he began to suffer from it, Jibreel (a.s.) came to him and revealed the Al-Mu’awwadhatayn (Surahs Al-Falaq and An-Naas) then said to him, “Surely it was a Jew who cast this spell on you and the magical charm is in a certain well.” The Prophet (s.a.w) sent ‘Ali ibn Abu Taalib to fetch the charm. When he returned with it, the Prophet (s.a.w.) told him to untie the knots in it, one by one, and recite a verse from the Surahs with each. When he did so, the Prophet (s.a.w.) got up as if he had been released from being tied up.

Surah an-Nas, is the 114th and final Surah of the Quran. It is a short Surah of just six Ayahs, asking Allah for protection from the evil Satan.

When you are having problems with your heart, conscious, or beliefs, recite this Surah to chase the Shaytan away and clear your mind. Remember, that no harm can come to you without the permission of Allah and He is the best of protectors.

So in life whenever you have been stuck by some evil force, recite and take the protection from God, you will see the miracle of it.

Live life, live Lovely.

The Present Moment

Every moment we live is the gift of God, a blessing and the universe give us a chance to spend each and every moment to its full capacity. Actually there are three state of mind, past, present and future. We live all in this phase but that we personally has to decide as to in which state we are thinking. Some times when we are sitting and just suddenly we become sad or happy that is the effect of our thought that on what type of things we are just thinking, the result appears in the form of our feelings i.e. either we sad or happy.

Gotham Buddha also searching this question that are we in the present state or not and when he got enlighten he found the answer of living in present moment and I will tell you that how he got it and how can you too also get enlighten.

I myself also being so much confused in it and when I apply it to my self I got the answer, all of the suffering and pain which we get are from our past experiences and when we think about it and all the time  thinking on it we will get more and more pain and suffering, let me explain with the help of example, suppose  we wake up in the morning and instead of thanking God and praise the beauty of nature we just thinking about some one did that or some one wrong or bad etc so the mind works on it and connect it to the past instead of present moment and we totally cut off from present and our past mind activate and all sufferings and pain generated as we so much confused that why bad things happened to me, is because of our wrong and negative thinking pattern which disconnect us from present and we suffer.

I know its very difficult to remain in present moment because our mind is very clever, he dogged us and deviate us from present. The best way is as you feel bad or unpleasant concentrate on breathing in and out, totally focused on it and say to your self I am in present state, then you suddenly realize the dropping of intensity of suffering.

If you want to spend your life pleasantly so live in present moment, the past memories only be for your future decision and planning future, don’t mix it with present because if you always think of past and afraid of future you just ruin you beautiful present i.e for love, beauty and humbleness.

Live life, live Lovely.  

Ideology of Humans.

While travelling from one city to another, I have noticed so many things. The people all around are looks like some kind of animals who were for their food and survival are running around like a animal who searches for their food, killing for their survivals. We as a humans also kills one another, some kills plants, some animals and some kills human which we see in the form of war.

The humans from the centuries kills one another for the sake of wealth, land and territory.  They at that time forget all norms and ethics. How can we say our self humans as sometime we behaves more cruel then animals.

The question still pending that we as a humans acts very much similar to animals like greed for food and territory, female possession, kills one another for the sake of echo etc. Also one thing must realize that like animals we have also two eyes, two ears, one nose, one mouth and we also do sex like animals, if you watch blue films you will see that how crazy the humans would become when doing sex, some times much violent than the animals.

Many incident of rape, homo sexuality and child sex is one of the major declining factor of human race as we become more brutal than animals.  Very confusing is the human beings.

When you read the books of all religion you will notice that all gives one common message i.e love to humanity. The average point of religion is that there must be some reason of being here, our existence and the earth balancing.   

Live life, live Lovely.

The Universe.

Our universe is surrounded by millions, billions or trillions stars of which our sun is the smallest stars among them. If we closely look to humans existence, humans brain are increasing day by day as in technology, science and other entities. Humans are the cleavers among other species and day by day its knowledge increasing rapidly. Just like the universe expanding, the humans minds also expanding, its look like there must be some connection of our existence with the universe. We have been send on the planet earth with some cause, the earth existence is so favorable for life as it is not seen on any other planet. The precise setting of its things  like rivers, atmosphere, oceans, animals and several other so many things which if some intellectuals see it, can easily predict it, as it not be done as default.

It means that the first human who came on planet earth, for him is like a traveler who came to see the creation of God. Its decision has been put to humans as he discover and find the God. The God do not come in front of us and say here I am, instead he has been given proof of his presence to humans who can see and feel his existence. His presence can be in any form which we cannot able to identify.

The religion also been created to find the answer of God, every religion has one common belief that there must be some power or existence that has been control this universe. In Hinduism as they had different types of God shapes and their appearance on earth identifies that they were a kind of a creature created by God which might be Evil (Jin) which has been created by fire and can transform into different shapes and forms but after when God disallowed them due to  more disobedience they were been thrown away by the angels and protected the universe with fire balls so that no one can reached to the top level and hear the dialogue between angels and God.

From the above mention points, the purpose of creation is very clear according to Holy Quran that the earth being the place of test between evil and human to identify the good and bad peoples, but here the evil has got the permission from God not to interfere in his sin as he wanted to make all the humans to do sin, but the best people of God will be in God protection and evil influence not harm them. So whatever be the religion we should not to fight with each other and do bad things, love and care for each other and whatever be the religion, not to harm each other.

Live lovely, live Life.