Brutal and Unjust World

When I was small my mother used to say always be kind to people, love people and not to fight with people, I grown up with this vision but when I enter in the practical world I so much confuse because here people are fighting each other, violence every  where , good people are been thrown back ward and wicked and coward people are controlling the world.

Look very closely to animals, the big animal eats the small ones likewise the big person eats the small persons, the powerful eats the weaker one. I don’t understand the wild creation, if it has to be destroyed so why been created, very important question which so many gives answer relates to religion but from where so many languages and religion created or as the humans got the brain and his understanding increases, they created many things by themselves.

There are many thoughts that humans belong to some other planet and by accidentally they have been dropped here, many says maybe we live in heaven and because of evil disobedient we have been thrown here. Whatever maybe the cause, the only thing we are analyzing is that we have been thrown here for test, the test of harmony and balance, the test that either we are to be called humans. If for instance I suppose that the earth created itself, may I wrong because such a balance, harmony and accuracy cannot be made by itself. There must be someone the energy, the God or whatever who controlling this Universe. The creation of animals and humans itself is a very important question mark to scientist who even not yet can able to create a mosquito, see the breathing system,  the fish in the water, the aunt in the ground and other incredible species.

If you want to find out the real pleasure in life, you have to find out your inner self, meditation is the best solution to answer all the problem, when you alone and meditate you will be connected to the source and the answer will automatically generated. We all are tourist in this planet earth and came here to find our self. Life is too short so enjoy it with fun and pleasure instead of hate and jealousy.

Live life, live Lovely.

Subconsciously how we burn our Money.

Money is very important  in our life. Money gives you satisfaction and a state of relieve but many people instead of using it  for own and for helping others, people create  many illegal and brutal ways of getting it which is not good.

The very important thing which I want to discuss today is that you do not know how the banks, media and the shopping markets taken out the money from your pocket and subconsciously you burn your own money. Let me explain, suppose you got your salary of Rs 25,000/= and by walking down the street you see a beautiful  expensive mobile banner of which you see the ads all the day and by looking its placing and the way the shop keeper convince you , you decided to purchase it of Rs 20,000/= now you got only Rs 5,000/= to spare.  How you will now spend the month, that’s the cage in which you trap, and most of the people trap in this, they create the hike and emotions to convince you. Like wise the same done by banks and leasing companies , they offer you various types of loans in which you trap and become the slave. You think you are doing good but unconsciously you get into the trap which you do not know and by the end you spend your entire life in paying off the loans.

Now the question arise how we get out of the trap, let me explain, there are two things one is need and the other is want. Need means the things which you really need it for your survival like food, cloths etc, & the want means you do not need that but for the sake of making show off or showing superior to other we take those things. For example I need the car for travelling which I can take any smaller or cheaper car but to show off other we buy bigger and expensive cars just to show people we are rich or superior and the banks / leasing companies take full advantage of it and catch you in trap. The expensive car which you buy after some time you get bored and want other expensive car and so on.

The only thing to get rid of this is to live simple life because peace from inside is much important then the frustrations of outer world. If you peaceful and calm from inside the outer world will also be peace full.

Live Life, live Lovely.

The reason of Failure

The reason why we not achieve success or not accomplish task is the lack of commitment towards the work or business.  Let me explain suppose I want to watch some picture in cinema which distance about 20 km from my house and suddenly it was raining, shall then I go or not, if the goal of watching movie is not important for me then I will not go but on the other hand if my brother got accident distance 20 km then I will definitely go because over here goal is much important.

Likewise in our life we make lot of goals to achieve but our commitment towards achieving it not important that’s why we fail and  feel lazy and make many excuses. Every successful person has  the dream first and then the burning desire of achieving it.

Many times we have good commitment & desire  but fail because we do not work on our self  to improve, many time we have to change many patterns to achieve it, if something not working in some way then work on other way then other way etc.

Nothing in this world is impossible, the thing is to first analyze your strength and weakness, then work on it, many important personalities like Shahrukh Khan, Sachin Tendulkar etc are those who work on himself despite of many hurdles.   

Life is too short, don’t waste it on excuses and blames, build your great life and always make big dreams, because dreams are the picture of your desire and if you work hard on it you will definitely get the result, the ways will make automatically, it is saying that where the focus goes energy flows, when we put the magnify glass in front of sun and make a focus beam on piece of paper it will burn out similarly when focus goes on achieving something, the result will produce.

Live Life, Live Lovely.  

Secret of Happiness

One of my very good client asked me that how we can get the happiness and stay calm, the answer is that we have to train ourselves and make our mindset to think and act in some different ways.

This can be explain in this example,  suppose you have some negative past memories and had some future plans, if I say to just think that you born today, now you have no past and future memories, how you now behave, obviously you become so light and free from all worries and tensions. You feel like to enjoy the moments and nothing to be worried.

In life we hang ourselves with so much worries and stress that ruin not only our life but also our present moments. In this case our present moment is control by past  experiences or by future uncertainty. The only best way to tackle this situation is to clear out all your past negative experiences and focus on your breath, by doing this you will be aware and be in present moments. You have to do meditation and light exercise every day which will help out in decreasing the toxics in your body. Sit in some quite and comfort place, just be relaxed and breath slowly and concentrate on your breath, do daily for at least 10 to 15 minutes at any time which will make your habit of remaining in present moments. 

The golden principle of life is to be in present moment and whatever happened in the past its all gone, you will never return it back, the only thing you can do is to be in present moment and enjoy life because the present moment decides the future outcomes.

Live Life, Live Happy.   

Our Behavior & Attitude.

Lot of time we heard about the behavior, what it is, we can also called it attitude. How it is formed and how to overcome it.Many time we heard that some one kill his brother or friend become enemy of some ego issue, where this ego generate from. For example if someone hit me or damage some thing, so I become angry and next time I will hit him or do not talk to him. The reason I do this is because in my subconscious some where I have made that film of anger and hatred. There are two type of world we operate, one is inner world and the other is outer world. What you are outside is because of inside, means that way of inner thinking pattern will project your outer picture.

This can be explain in simple term as if someone is poor, this does not mean that he is not lucky or his family is not rich, he is poor because of mental blockages which by his environment made him to act and behave like a poor. The best example is of Oprah winfrey who is born in maid family, very poor and her family molested her so badly, but because of her courage and her inner world picture which she saw of herself of becoming so famous is the live example of attitude and behavior.

So whatever the circumstances, never afraid of thinking big dreams and always try to achieve them in smaller slats, step by step, if it not work, change the plan and work on that.

Live Life, Live Lovely.